Intent
verses Action
This is
one of the least understood principles in metaphysics. It is also why
things just don't work a lot of the time.
You can
do your affirmations every morning to get a new job but if your
intent is to get your teeth brushed and out to the job you hate as
fast as possible, guess what isn't going to happen? Yes, that would
be a new job.
There is
an even darker side this little problem. Let's say you are doing
affirmations or prayers to get a person out of your office and even
adding; to a job they will enjoy, but at the same time all the anger,
rage and hate is festering as you clench your teeth and pray for
them. You are actually going to be cursing them. There is no deity
that will be stepping between you and the rebound on this one. You
may find yourself out of a job. You may find yourself tied even
closer to this person.
Most of
the time I tell clients that a spell they do themselves works better
because they have more invested in it. In this case, hire someone to
get the person moved to a better job and out of your hair. Any time
you have strong negative feelings about a situation that you want to
improve, it is time to hire someone.
I have
seen this in simple things like home improvement projects. A friend
trying to replace something that broke was feeling really put out
they had to spend the money. They spent a fortune on bandages and
almost broke something vital. It was simple. The Universe said if you
hate replacing it this much, I'll make sure you don't replace it and
off the ladder they went. The intent they felt manifested really
well. They had to hire a handyman. If you aren't feeling positive
about the project either don't do it or hire someone. My aromatherapy
teacher told us that if she was in a bad mood, it didn't matter what
oils she mixed, they smelled bad.
The same
thing applies to cooking. Your food will reflect your mood. If you
are burning things, are you doing a slow burn over something? It is
always intent that is expressed over action.
Intent
is the hardest thing to face as it often shows us a side of ourselves
we don't want to see: the dark side. Suddenly, you have to face what
you hate about the person you are “trying” to help. The white
light and goodness mask just dropped off and you don't like what you
see. Ideally, that is the time to step back from helping the other
person and start working on yourself. The problem may really be
staring back at you in mirror. Forge ahead and you are guaranteed a
real muck up. Your intent will manifest. Fix yourself and you might
just discover a whole slew of problems simply go away. The
relationship you always need to work on is the one you are having
with yourself, not with other people.
That
doesn't mean other people can't affect you negatively and do it
deliberately. It took me 30 years of practice to run into someone who
really was being cursed. No one was more shocked than me. It turned
out that just a little bit of protection and she was out the black
fog that surrounded her. Since that day, I have seen some really
strange stuff. I'll tell you about some of it in the coming weeks.
However, I will say one thing right now, do not exceed your skill
level because in this area, you can really muck things up for
yourself and others and unmucking it is always harder than mucking
it. I think the Universe has a perverted sense of humor in that area.
The best approach is always limited engagement and limited
destruction.